Defining Success

In baseball and in life we sometimes have a tendency to judge ourselves by everyone else’s definition of success and rarely our own. We push and strive to get better and achieve a certain level of success and many times we have no idea what success really is. Especially in sports we have a tendency to judge our success based on what the general population considers to be a successful athlete. Getting the D1 scholarship, getting drafted, playing at the major league level, all these things are generally the standard by which we judge the ability of our athletes. The problem is these things may not be right for everyone. Not everyone will be happy at the big D1 school, some guys go to schools because they’re D1 but they are located in some pretty undesirable places to live. Maybe you’d be happy at a small school. Maybe there is a D3 or NAIA school somewhere that offers you playing time, a good education, and a great experience. The point is that we need to understand what it is we truly want and what we define as success.

The same can be said about our performance on the field. It’s easy to judge our performance based on how many hits we get or our stats at the end of the year. But that is using outside influences to dictate if we are successful or not. The problem with that is 1) these are things that are beyond our control and 2) not everyone is at the same place in their career. Maybe hitting .300 is easy for you and you are able to do that year in and year out. Assuming that this means you’re successful is limiting the amount of overall success you could potentially have. If you’re a player who doesn’t hit .300 consistently and you base you’re success on hitting .300 you are limiting yourself as well since you will consistently feel like you’ve failed which won’t allow you to make the adjustments necessary to improve.

In every situation you encounter you need to first define what success is for you. This definition needs to be based on things that you can control. If you’re working on a particular adjustment in your swing you could base your success in that at-bat on wether or not you were able to execute that adjustment. Whatever you decide I encourage you to take the time to really define what success means for you. This will allow you to consistently improve and allow you to become a better player then you ever could imagine. In addition you will be able to recognize when you are successful and that will be based on your definition and not that of others.